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Even if you believe weight to be an important component to health, if the path to get there is ineffective and detracts from long term health, is it really the “right” solution?
Look at it this way. If you had the flu and were given a pill that would work for 6-12 months but then leave you sicker than when you started, would you take it? |
What IS within my control?I feel a lot of pressure to help people lose weight – to achieve that magical, mythical number. The start of any weight loss journey is full of joy and hope (at least for a few weeks / days / hours). And I really want to give that to people. But that joy quickly turns to shame and blame. I also recognize society gives a lot of praise to certain bodies. I want to make people happy. But it’s more important to me to support people’s health long term.
I’m not anti health. I’m not anti weight. I’m anti weight loss methods. I firmly believe in the value of healthy living but I also don’t think it’s a one size fits all approach. Health is achieved when someone is living in concert with their physical, mental, and emotional selves. Weight loss methods are typically about ignoring your physical and emotional cues and punishing yourself when you do listen. Additionally, they often ignore core components of health such as mental health, rest, and connection to others. Often when people are living in accordance with their unique needs, they’re happier and healthier and weight settled to whatever they are genetically designed to be.
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What can I expect from sessions?Outcomes and goal vary person to person. But in general, here are some of the ways I’ve helped people over the years:
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Eat sufficient food to nourish your body, mind, and soul. Find a balance between giving your body the nutrients it needs as well as the joyful foods that satisfy your humanity leaving you full and satisfied.
Move consistently in the amount and type that works for you – to keep your heart challenged and your muscles strong. For some that’s the challenge of an Ironman and others it’s a regular walk around the block with the dog. Stay true to you. Give attention to your mental health. Seek support and work through tough issues. Otherwise food issues become a tool to distract you from your own past / present / future mind. Get adequate physical and emotional rest. Find a work / life balance that gives space for the other areas in this list (note – this assumes a level of financial security…ahem). Inadequate rest leaves one seeking food for comfort and energy. Connect with others in meaningful ways. Humans are not meant to live in isolation. When we connect with others, we feel better physically and emotionally. Lack of connection typically leads to food seeking behaviors. Both eating and loving trigger oxytocin in the brain aka “the love hormone.” |